Life coaches UK are tasked with many different situations are required to be qualified in understanding the motivations, habits, rituals and both conscious and sub conscious minds. This then can be programmed by using mental principles, self belief and confidence training to help people, with either business or personal objectives, goals or dreams to develop the skills, rituals and habits that produce the results they need and desire.
People say they like change... not true! People like change for the better not for worse, but because change is the only constant, goals enable people to control the direction of change which can allow them to control whether there is a positive or negative movement.
So let's talk about the corridor effect. In a literal corridor if you stand still you never get anywhere, you can see the doors that you like the look of to go through but if you are not moving, all you do it look at them. The same is true in life, many people speak of wanting certain things in life but do nothing to get themselves to where they need to get too in order to enjoy it.
How do we move down the corridor of life? By setting goals. By setting and working toward goals it adds massive enjoyment to life both adding the happiness and the feeling of achievement. While moving down the corridor of life we pass other doors or opportunities. By working toward our goals we actually open up other doors and may choose to change our path.
As we progress faster through the corridors we also exercise the law of attraction, we attract people and circumstances that are directly related to the person we are inside. If we have a positive style mind it is manifested in actions and thus we attract positive people. If we are angry then our actions are mirrored in angry or violent acts and we will attract other angry people around us.
So look around at your friends, what are they like? Look carefully because we only tend to create strong rapport with people we are like or people we would like to be. Our enemies tend to be people who we feel we have nothing in common with and who the thought of us becoming like makes us feel very uneasy.
So, always be willing to move forward in life by setting goals and achieving them. If we don't we become like a dog who chases a car. Have you ever seen a dog chasing a car? I meant whats the point?! What is the dog going to do when he catches it? Well, he finds another car going past and chases that instead. It expends lots of energy, been running all day and accomplished absolutely nothing.
We have to be the same in life, work hard at measurable goals that product results. The law of return states that you need to put in to get out. You cannot go into a bank and ask for interest before you have even paid money in money! Yet many in life do! They expect something for nothing. Put in hard, hard work now to pull interest and results in 6 months then reinvest this in a new goal with your energy and the interest you got back from the last goal.
Thing about it, its what you are enjoying or feeling pain from now that is directly resulted to something you have done or said in the last 12 months. So make a change now by deciding that you will work hard now with no rewards so that you benefit from this in six months. Then if you keep making this progress the standard you will gradually keep improving your circumstances.
We also talk about rituals but this is another story from Signature Success Life & Career Coaching UK that we will publish soon.
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